OMG, winter is fully upon us, When the temperature is in single digits, I am loath to go outside. But I had things to do in Virginia and we drove over this weekend. It was bright and sunny when we left. But coming back was a different story. Through West, by God, Virginia, there was one open lane and lots of trucks. A trip that normally takes 9 hours took 11. I must admit that I was not rejoicing on the way back.
Winter weather is to be expected in January, but it still felt…what? Inconvenient? Disappointing? Tiresome? All of the above? I wanted to be home and through with the snow and cold and traffic. I guess I was being a little like Debbie Downer. Remember Debbie Downer from Saturday Night Live? In every skit, we find Debbie in a happy, joyful environment, and within moments she is bringing up horrible facts, or pointing out the negative in life. People loved the skit because, as they say, comedy imitates life. We all know people like Debbie. People who just bring others down. Sometimes we call them Debbie Downers, sometimes we call them Eeyore. If they bring you down too much, you might not call them at all.
I was not really Debbie Downer, but I was tired and maybe a little irritable. I know it’s hard to believe but I’m not always perky and full of smiles. I knew I could get hangry (angry when hungry) but now I know that simply being tired could wipe that smile right off my face. Have you lost your joy? Life never seems to work out for you. Everywhere you look you see something that makes you unhappy…on the news, on Facebook or any other social media. If that describes you today, I want to encourage you to turn over a new leaf. How, you ask?
Ask God to help you:
Dear God, so far today, I’ve done all right. I haven’t gossiped, and I haven’t lost my temper. I haven’t been grumpy, nasty, or selfish. But in a few minutes, God, I’m going to get out of bed and that is when I’m going to need a lot of help.
Life can be difficult, and we all have trials. But we have to learn to have a positive attitude. Your thoughts have power. Negative thoughts can cost you dearly as you refrain from doing something because you don’t think you can. As a person thinks, so they are. ~Proverbs 23:7
Start your day with the right mindset:
You have two choices when you wake up. You can choose to be in a good mood, or you can choose to be in a bad mood. Choose to be in a good mood! If you don’t have time for prayer or bible study, say the above passage out loud and personalize it. This is the day which the Lord has made; I will rejoice and be glad in it.
Life is all about choices. When you cut away all the junk, every situation is a choice. You choose how you react to situations. You choose how people will affect your mood. You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood. The bottom line—It’s your choice how you live life.
Do things that lift you up:
The worst thing you can do is think on things that bring you down. If you are constantly thinking about sad things, guess what? You’ll be sad. If you are filling your mind with negative things or listening to music or watching movies that are sad, depressing, or generate negative thoughts and feelings, you’ll feel negative or sad.
If you want to be positive, then focus on things that will lift you up. Laugh! There is truth in the old adage “laughter is the best medicine.” Watch a funny movie. Hang out with a funny friend, Laugh out loud. Why? Because this is a day the Lord has made and we will rejoice and be glad in it.
God bless all who read this. Amen